This is how people are, they have to stab people when they can clearly say something properly.
Dennis's face sank, nodded, and sneered, "Okay, if you like that, then you can continue, I won't bother."
This was obviously an angry remark, and he turned to go downstairs.
I breathed out, after suppressing those inexplicable emotions in my heart, I suddenly felt that I was indeed unreasonable again.
After sitting at the dresser for a few moments to calm down, Folly came upstairs, hugged Keith and looked at me incomprehensibly, "I mean, are you guys particularly keen on arguing and hurting each other? This is somehow another fight."
I shrugged my shoulders and looked at him and said, "Would you believe me if I said no? Emotions are not in control."
She was speechless, spoke, "Dennis is actually really good, he wants to find this kind of man is now really extinct, the company is now facing so big problems, busy already anxious, but know that you came back, or early to come to admit fault to show weakness, Clara, you in other aspects are no big problem, but in the treatment of feelings this I think a large part of the reason is that you know that no matter how you are, Dennis will actually get you back, which seems to have become a dead cycle, and you enjoy this dead cycle, and even in the infinite creation of this cycle, you have not thought, if one day Dennis ran out of patience, between you is not really the end? "
I froze, and all of a sudden my brain felt like it was buzzing with what had stung my nerves.
She continued to speak, "Zack and I do not have a relationship as strong as yours, nor do you have that twists and turns, I understand the marriage is, we will be in their own small home, because who did not wash the socks, who neglected the children, who brought the emotions outside the home to cause each other angry quarrel, these trivial things, perhaps every day repeatedly occur, but we quarrel After we are done, we know that this is just a small episode of life, and it will pass. What we have to think about is the two of us will give each other a kiss when we wake up in the morning, give each other a hug when we leave, and put aside all the stress and unhappiness to give each other a 'I miss you' when we go home. It's necessary and unnecessary for these small, even troublesome routines, but life and living are different, and Zack and I want to live the kind of hot, steamy life that gives us and our children the ability to feel each other's love clearly."
She paused and said, "I know, maybe the love between you and Dennis is more passionate than any of our pairs, but there is something really wrong with the way you treat love, you complicate it, think about it, is that so-called Olivia really a direct obstacle for you? And that Hank of yours, is it really? No, they are their own life trajectory, only occasionally in your life for a moment, or ambiguous or intimate, these are not you witnessed, Clara, in love, love is understanding tolerance, put yourself in each other's shoes for the good, worry about his worries, understand him, not to claim and plunder, Dennis in a little change, his compromise on your tolerance even he knows you do not want to do family Blessing, has tried very hard not to give you pressure, let you do what you like, but my dear, have you thought about it, these years, what are you doing?"
Folly's words, like a slap in the face, hit me hard, ten years of marriage, I feel my love for Dennis is true, treat his heart is also true, but these years I never seem to try to understand him, understand him over, from the child accident, to I know my biological parents because he and I have a gap, these I tossed back and forth, seems to have only one purpose, torture him!
Seems to have been playing the slogan of love all, to him to claim and revenge ......
Seeing that I didn't speak up, Folly sighed slightly and spoke, "Clara, the process of loving each other is easy, it only requires hormonal outbursts, but keeping each other is hard, Dennis grew up under the teaching of the military pair, the biggest strength in him is responsibility and military loyalty, Olivia is his commitment to his brother, so it is his responsibility, his Loyalty you know better than I do, do not hurt each other because of a moment of impulse, can you?"
I nodded, realizing that I seemed too impulsive and willful, that I never seemed to put myself in Dennis' shoes and never really understood him.
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