Love Letters, Divorce Papers (Jared and Amber) novel Chapter 820

“It’s nothing. You’re his girlfriend and you two will marry again if things don’t go wrong. Why would you put it that way? Isn’t he ought to help you with anything?” Hayden shrugged and said indifferently.

Amber shook her head, “In this world, no one owns others anything. We’re together now and will be married in the future, but that doesn’t mean he should do anything for me. That’s not right. And I’m not that kind of person who likes to own favors. I would always feel uncomfortable until I pay back those favors.”

“I can tell.” Hayden looked at her and agreed,

Amber smiled and said, “Like I said, I’ve owned Jared a lot before we got back together so I don’t wanna own him even more. Now that we’re together again, if I bother him with everything, I would feel inferior in this relationship and it won’t be an equal relationship. Also, if I go to him for help every time I’m faced with an obstacle, I would lose my ability to think and tackle problems. I would want him to help me every time something’s up. Have you thought about that?”

“What?” Hayden blinked and was confused.

Amber put that cup of tea back on the table, “Jared loves me now, and I know that if I ask him for anything, he will say yes and make it happen. That’s nice. But if one day he doesn’t love me and I’m habitually dependent on him, will he always help me?”

She shook her head slightly, “I don’t think so. If affections are worn out, they will never come back. So I don’t want to use Jared as a tool to help me deal with things. It’s not fair to him, and it’s a lack of trust in my own abilities.”

Listening to Amber’s comments, Hayden was so shocked that he had nothing to say to contradict them.

In his mind, his woman is his pet. As long as his woman had any difficulties, he would solve them for her directly. That was what a man should do.

But when he heard her point of view, and looked at the matter from another Angle, he suddenly felt that his idea was not so right again.

Indeed, to settle everything for his loved one was an act of love.

But this love indeed would let the loved one lose the ability to be independent and become a person who couldn’t deal with things by themselves.

So was it love or harm?

He thought it was both.

He could offer help but should not be blindly obedient.

Helping the loved one when she had no way out was truly meaningful.

And he also agreed with her when she said a man would help his loved one when she had trouble but he would be annoyed when he didn’t love him anymore.

He might still help her a few times because of their past but if he helped her for too many times, he would be annoyed.

Thinking of that, Hayden thought more highly of Amber, “You’re special and your point of view is refreshing.”

That was why he couldn’t forget about her.

Amber didn’t understand the deeper meaning of his words. She added with a faint smile, “But the other thing is, Jared is definitely not going to ask me to return the favor. He’s not going to like it if I do. I don’t want to fight with him. So when it’s hard for me to do something and I have to ask someone else for help, I think of you and Cole. At least you are friends with me, and if I return the favor, you will accept it, because you know that if I do not return the favor, I will be unhappy.”

Hayden suddenly understood and smiled bitterly, “Well, I was wondering why you came to me instead of Jared, because I couldn’t and wouldn’t refuse your favor, and that was also the same with dealing with the Gardner family.”